"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alright guys, been reading a lot of stuff on this site and others. Got a mega issue in understanding what IOIs actually are and what they mean. Anyone got any simple advice? You know like what to look for when? Cheers people/
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You should only be looking hard for IOIs if you are already good at attracting women. IOIs are helpful down the road when you need to make a decision on your actions, but for now it's much better to ASSUME that a woman is attracted to you.

Any other negative thoughts of women NOT being attracted to you will just hinder your mind from attaining your goal. Keep your thoughts positive and worry about those things when you are more experienced.
 
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