"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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IOI's from very hot girls, still don't know what to do

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"you look really nice."
I know, wanna chat up sometime?

"are YOU a player?"
It will be up to you to find out.

"nah, I'm too old."
Why would you say that really? What you say doesn't matter alot though, you just gotta keep the conversation going and evade ejection.

We need to work on communication/conversation skills. I am suffering from a similiar problem, I can't keep the conversation going.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Or "Thank you. Fancy grabbing a coffee/drink/protein shake/smoothie?"
Phil, have you field tested asking a HB to get a protein shake? :p
 

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Last week, I was down town barhopping by myself.

Literally, the hottest girl in the whole city came up to me and said "you look really nice." I had seen her a few times before and she has seen me, too. She was not serving me so she was not just after a tip. I still didn't know what to say. My conversational skills are horrible.

At another bar, there was a song on that goes "I'm not a player, I just crash a lot." And the bartender came up to me and said "are YOU a player?" I guess I was giving off that vibe.

I just said some thing about "nah, I'm too old." And she told me I'm not old. Then, I didn't know what to say.

Even when very attractive women basically directly hit on me, I am still at a loss of what to do.
YOU will get better at this in time.

You are insecure because you are new to this. You don't know what works.
 
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"you look really nice."
I know, wanna chat up sometime?

"are YOU a player?"
It will be up to you to find out.

"nah, I'm too old."
Why would you say that really? What you say doesn't matter alot though, you just gotta keep the conversation going and evade ejection.

We need to work on communication/conversation skills. I am suffering from a similiar problem, I can't keep the conversation going.
Yes, and the fact that I was basically stumbling around down town full of martinis didn't help.

I don't think there is anything "really clever" that could have helped the situation. I think girls see through all that.

When asked if I was a player
YOU will get better at this in time.

You are insecure because you are new to this. You don't know what works.
What would you have done?


I'm not new to sex. Not new to life on the planet. I might be new to socializing with hot women, but at this point I'm not sure how much of that I actually want to do. I have joined MGTOW and RoK forums recently, but am not allowed to post yet.


I'm experienced enough to know that their stinky vagina hole isn't going to save my life and that the "beauty" of any women wears off in a few hours or even minutes.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Last week, I was down town barhopping by myself.

Literally, the hottest girl in the whole city came up to me and said "you look really nice."
your response: "I know, right? thank you though. would you prefer a selfie with me or an autograph?"

And the bartender came up to me and said "are YOU a player?" I guess I was giving off that vibe.
"my PS4 gets a lot of mileage"

I just said some thing about "nah, I'm too old." And she told me I'm not old. Then, I didn't know what to say.
"I'm actually 57, but I age well. I use very expensive skin cream you see"
 
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