"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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IOI's from very hot girls, still don't know what to do

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"you look really nice."
I know, wanna chat up sometime?

"are YOU a player?"
It will be up to you to find out.

"nah, I'm too old."
Why would you say that really? What you say doesn't matter alot though, you just gotta keep the conversation going and evade ejection.

We need to work on communication/conversation skills. I am suffering from a similiar problem, I can't keep the conversation going.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Or "Thank you. Fancy grabbing a coffee/drink/protein shake/smoothie?"
Phil, have you field tested asking a HB to get a protein shake? :p
 

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Last week, I was down town barhopping by myself.

Literally, the hottest girl in the whole city came up to me and said "you look really nice." I had seen her a few times before and she has seen me, too. She was not serving me so she was not just after a tip. I still didn't know what to say. My conversational skills are horrible.

At another bar, there was a song on that goes "I'm not a player, I just crash a lot." And the bartender came up to me and said "are YOU a player?" I guess I was giving off that vibe.

I just said some thing about "nah, I'm too old." And she told me I'm not old. Then, I didn't know what to say.

Even when very attractive women basically directly hit on me, I am still at a loss of what to do.
YOU will get better at this in time.

You are insecure because you are new to this. You don't know what works.
 
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"you look really nice."
I know, wanna chat up sometime?

"are YOU a player?"
It will be up to you to find out.

"nah, I'm too old."
Why would you say that really? What you say doesn't matter alot though, you just gotta keep the conversation going and evade ejection.

We need to work on communication/conversation skills. I am suffering from a similiar problem, I can't keep the conversation going.
Yes, and the fact that I was basically stumbling around down town full of martinis didn't help.

I don't think there is anything "really clever" that could have helped the situation. I think girls see through all that.

When asked if I was a player
YOU will get better at this in time.

You are insecure because you are new to this. You don't know what works.
What would you have done?


I'm not new to sex. Not new to life on the planet. I might be new to socializing with hot women, but at this point I'm not sure how much of that I actually want to do. I have joined MGTOW and RoK forums recently, but am not allowed to post yet.


I'm experienced enough to know that their stinky vagina hole isn't going to save my life and that the "beauty" of any women wears off in a few hours or even minutes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Last week, I was down town barhopping by myself.

Literally, the hottest girl in the whole city came up to me and said "you look really nice."
your response: "I know, right? thank you though. would you prefer a selfie with me or an autograph?"

And the bartender came up to me and said "are YOU a player?" I guess I was giving off that vibe.
"my PS4 gets a lot of mileage"

I just said some thing about "nah, I'm too old." And she told me I'm not old. Then, I didn't know what to say.
"I'm actually 57, but I age well. I use very expensive skin cream you see"
 
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