nismo-4
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All rise! Court is now is session. The honorable Judge nismo-4 presiding. You may be seated.
I see too many guys analyzing these supposed IOI's, like twirling her hair, fidgeting, heavy eye contact, etc. Stop it.
If you like what you see on a lady and you think she may have some interest in you, get the f**k over there and talk to her! She likely ain't gonna make the first move.
Shoot first, ask questions later. Keep looking for buying signals if you want to, but don't be surprised when you likely get friendzoned. Why would you get friendzoned here? Easy, let's review the reasons.
1. Your lack of testicular fortitude dried her pu$$y up.
2. The window of attraction closes quickly. You missed your chance. Good luck forcing it open.
3. Women love a man who takes action, the lead, initiative, call it what you want. That passive sh*t just don't work, especially for most of us on this board.
4. Analysis paralysis. It happens, but if she labeled you as a wuss for not making a move, you have an uphill battle.
If you make a move, and show masculinity i.e. not being a woman with a penis, you'll have a better chance. An element of luck and availability is also involved. In essence, you are calling her bluff, especially if she's showing some supposed IOI. The end result will either be:
1. No. Because she only wanted you as an orbiter/ego booster or didn't find you attractive. Move on, don't waste your time here.
2. Yes. She follows your lead and might be dripping wet because you want more. Remember to escalate more, but calibrate correctly. And make sure her actions back this yes up as a yes.
Now, the IOI's that truly count. For all intents and purposes, I'm not counting mundane sh*t that often gets faked and is often used for guys in the friendzone/ attention provider zone like laughing at your jokes, heavy eye contact, phone/ text messaging, etc.
Ask yourself these questions. The answer given is all the indicator you need.
1. Does she flake on my date invites? No
1. (Rephrased) Does she accept my date invites and show the f**k up? Yes
2. Does she confuse me? No
3. Do we have sex? Yes
All three of these are the biggest points you need to consider an IOI. They are the strongest points that back up a woman's "yes" answer because they are all action based. Just don't turn AFC unless you want to dry her up in a New York second.
Also, a woman throwing mixed signals is giving you: (use whatever term you like)
1. False hope
2. Negative signals
3. A message you and your ego don't like or want to hear/ accept
4. An invite to join her orbiters
That's a time to up your masculinity or move on if she's playing too many games. If you go the former, she will either continue with the game playing, move on, (Drop it and go to another girl if this happens) or give you a yes response. If the yes response is given, make sure the actions back it up.
If nothing further, we'll stand adjourned.
I see too many guys analyzing these supposed IOI's, like twirling her hair, fidgeting, heavy eye contact, etc. Stop it.
If you like what you see on a lady and you think she may have some interest in you, get the f**k over there and talk to her! She likely ain't gonna make the first move.
Shoot first, ask questions later. Keep looking for buying signals if you want to, but don't be surprised when you likely get friendzoned. Why would you get friendzoned here? Easy, let's review the reasons.
1. Your lack of testicular fortitude dried her pu$$y up.
2. The window of attraction closes quickly. You missed your chance. Good luck forcing it open.
3. Women love a man who takes action, the lead, initiative, call it what you want. That passive sh*t just don't work, especially for most of us on this board.
4. Analysis paralysis. It happens, but if she labeled you as a wuss for not making a move, you have an uphill battle.
If you make a move, and show masculinity i.e. not being a woman with a penis, you'll have a better chance. An element of luck and availability is also involved. In essence, you are calling her bluff, especially if she's showing some supposed IOI. The end result will either be:
1. No. Because she only wanted you as an orbiter/ego booster or didn't find you attractive. Move on, don't waste your time here.
2. Yes. She follows your lead and might be dripping wet because you want more. Remember to escalate more, but calibrate correctly. And make sure her actions back this yes up as a yes.
Now, the IOI's that truly count. For all intents and purposes, I'm not counting mundane sh*t that often gets faked and is often used for guys in the friendzone/ attention provider zone like laughing at your jokes, heavy eye contact, phone/ text messaging, etc.
Ask yourself these questions. The answer given is all the indicator you need.
1. Does she flake on my date invites? No
1. (Rephrased) Does she accept my date invites and show the f**k up? Yes
2. Does she confuse me? No
3. Do we have sex? Yes
All three of these are the biggest points you need to consider an IOI. They are the strongest points that back up a woman's "yes" answer because they are all action based. Just don't turn AFC unless you want to dry her up in a New York second.
Also, a woman throwing mixed signals is giving you: (use whatever term you like)
1. False hope
2. Negative signals
3. A message you and your ego don't like or want to hear/ accept
4. An invite to join her orbiters
That's a time to up your masculinity or move on if she's playing too many games. If you go the former, she will either continue with the game playing, move on, (Drop it and go to another girl if this happens) or give you a yes response. If the yes response is given, make sure the actions back it up.
If nothing further, we'll stand adjourned.