"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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IOI Question For Mystery Method PUAs

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thickandcreamy

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OK, I've been learning some Mystery Method from a pua. I don't know a lot about it, but I am reading up. Right now, I'm learning about how to read IOI's (indicators of interest).

One question: is it an IOI if a girl leans in and starts talking/whispering in your ear every time? She's not touching me per se (one IOI) but it feels like an IOI to me. Is this right?

T 'n C
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yes, leaning in is a good thing
 
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Mystery lists them in his book, VAH, that you can buy on his website. It only costs a few dollars.

It's very handy to have for other reasons
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OK, now what if a girl looks at you over her shoulder, but right past you. Like I was at a bookstore and this girl kept looking directly at me over her shoulder, but she was acting like she was looking for someone or something just behind me.

This sometimes happens at the bar too. I've always ignored it, thinking it was insignificant. Is this an IOI also?

T 'n C
 
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