"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Inviting yourself to her place

Andy T

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Greetings,

I am wondering what are some other ways to invite yourself to a girl's place for a second date?
I usually use "lets watch a movie together"...

Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gangster Of Love

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Have her cook for you. I cannot stress that one enough.
 

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Andy T said:
Greetings,

I am wondering what are some other ways to invite yourself to a girl's place for a second date?
I usually use "lets watch a movie together"...

Thanks.
It's a fine line and you can stand to lose a bit of dominance because no matter how you frame it she has the power to say no. So I think she should suggest it herself.
 
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