"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Inviting yourself to her place

Andy T

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Greetings,

I am wondering what are some other ways to invite yourself to a girl's place for a second date?
I usually use "lets watch a movie together"...

Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gangster Of Love

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Have her cook for you. I cannot stress that one enough.
 

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Andy T said:
Greetings,

I am wondering what are some other ways to invite yourself to a girl's place for a second date?
I usually use "lets watch a movie together"...

Thanks.
It's a fine line and you can stand to lose a bit of dominance because no matter how you frame it she has the power to say no. So I think she should suggest it herself.
 
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