"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Two girls I am into are friends. I got invited to the birthday party for lets call her (A). (A) tells me should would love for me to come. I am going to go and was wondering whats the proper etiquette? Should I get her a gift and also should I ask her friend lets call her (B) to help me pick out a gift for (A)? I am more into (B) and I think she knows this but (A) still shows me interest.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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O.P is most likely their spritzing, mincing hairstylist humming Broadway show tunes while awaiting Sosuave replies.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bruceartest24 said:
Two girls I am into are friends. I got invited to the birthday party for lets call her (A). (A) tells me should would love for me to come. I am going to go and was wondering whats the proper etiquette? Should I get her a gift and also should I ask her friend lets call her (B) to help me pick out a gift for (A)? I am more into (B) and I think she knows this but (A) still shows me interest.
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Why would you buy a gift for a girl you're not dating?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm gonna take a different view. Why should you go to a BIRTHDAY party empty handed? Buy her something, just keep it simple and inexpensive. You don't want to be the only cheap b@stard at the party that got "A" nothing.

Whether "B" does or does not buy "A" anything is neither your business nor your problem. If they are friends, she probably will. If she doesn't, you will be the classy one and she'll feel lower than you (good). If she does, then you are both thoughtful.

Then continue to game "B" at the party. This may create jealousy in "A" because you thought of her, but didn't try to pick her up.

In a way, it's better that you DON'T game "A.". She can be used for networking and, possibly invite you to future parties to meet other chicks.
 
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Mike32ct said:
I'm gonna take a different view. Why should you go to a BIRTHDAY party empty handed? Buy her something, just keep it simple and inexpensive. You don't want to be the only cheap b@stard at the party that got "A" nothing.

Whether "B" does or does not buy "A" anything is neither your business nor your problem. If they are friends, she probably will. If she doesn't, you will be the classy one and she'll feel lower than you (good). If she does, then you are both thoughtful.

Then continue to game "B" at the party. This may create jealousy in "A" because you thought of her, but didn't try to pick her up.

In a way, it's better that you DON'T game "A.". She can be used for networking and, possibly invite you to future parties to meet other chicks.
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That is great I will do this..appreciate the advice.
 
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