"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

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Two girls I am into are friends. I got invited to the birthday party for lets call her (A). (A) tells me should would love for me to come. I am going to go and was wondering whats the proper etiquette? Should I get her a gift and also should I ask her friend lets call her (B) to help me pick out a gift for (A)? I am more into (B) and I think she knows this but (A) still shows me interest.
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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bruceartest24 said:
Two girls I am into are friends. I got invited to the birthday party for lets call her (A). (A) tells me should would love for me to come. I am going to go and was wondering whats the proper etiquette? Should I get her a gift and also should I ask her friend lets call her (B) to help me pick out a gift for (A)? I am more into (B) and I think she knows this but (A) still shows me interest.
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Why would you buy a gift for a girl you're not dating?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm gonna take a different view. Why should you go to a BIRTHDAY party empty handed? Buy her something, just keep it simple and inexpensive. You don't want to be the only cheap b@stard at the party that got "A" nothing.

Whether "B" does or does not buy "A" anything is neither your business nor your problem. If they are friends, she probably will. If she doesn't, you will be the classy one and she'll feel lower than you (good). If she does, then you are both thoughtful.

Then continue to game "B" at the party. This may create jealousy in "A" because you thought of her, but didn't try to pick her up.

In a way, it's better that you DON'T game "A.". She can be used for networking and, possibly invite you to future parties to meet other chicks.
 
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Mike32ct said:
I'm gonna take a different view. Why should you go to a BIRTHDAY party empty handed? Buy her something, just keep it simple and inexpensive. You don't want to be the only cheap b@stard at the party that got "A" nothing.

Whether "B" does or does not buy "A" anything is neither your business nor your problem. If they are friends, she probably will. If she doesn't, you will be the classy one and she'll feel lower than you (good). If she does, then you are both thoughtful.

Then continue to game "B" at the party. This may create jealousy in "A" because you thought of her, but didn't try to pick her up.

In a way, it's better that you DON'T game "A.". She can be used for networking and, possibly invite you to future parties to meet other chicks.
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That is great I will do this..appreciate the advice.
 
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