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Invite to Party?

Sly6699

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Hey-
So my friend and I (in high school) are throwing this party over spring break. Now, we're about to start inviting people and stuff - and I wanna invite this girl(s) that I'm interested in.

Should I just be like "Hey u should come to my party. It's on blah blah blah" and simply go talk to her that night?

Or is there something that I should say that more directly suggests she should hang out with me or something there. (Like: "Come to the party with me" or something?)

Also, any general tips for during the party?
Haha thanks, and sorry for the long post :up:
 

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It's-Me

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"Hey I'm throwing a party, it's gonna be so much fun, you should come".

I would go with something like that.
 

eaglez1177

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Yea as long as you mention booze everyone is gonna come running to your party lol
 

Allurre

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When you invite her, make her expect nothing short of excitement in the party you're throwing.

With the right amount of enthusiasm, tell her "Hey, I've got an amazing party coming soon (tell her when, theme of party), and I'd like to personally invite you. If you haven't had anything else scheduled for your springbreak, book yourself for this party. You won't regret coming."

If she agrees, exchange numbers so she can contact you for directions to the party, or for more information.

It's that easy. Just play your cool right.
 

eaglez1177

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lol dude people in highscool dont "book" themselves for a party. they just got lol. and theres usually no theme unless its like halloween or sumtin.
 

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faiNt`

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Ask for her number; "Put your number in here" (hand her your phone)

Continue; "I'm throwing a party over break, call me if you want directions."

Call the number she put in before you leave so she has your number.

You took the lead, but you put the ball in her court so to speak. Now you will know if she is interested or not.
 
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