"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Invite to Party?

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Hey-
So my friend and I (in high school) are throwing this party over spring break. Now, we're about to start inviting people and stuff - and I wanna invite this girl(s) that I'm interested in.

Should I just be like "Hey u should come to my party. It's on blah blah blah" and simply go talk to her that night?

Or is there something that I should say that more directly suggests she should hang out with me or something there. (Like: "Come to the party with me" or something?)

Also, any general tips for during the party?
Haha thanks, and sorry for the long post :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Hey I'm throwing a party, it's gonna be so much fun, you should come".

I would go with something like that.
 
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Yea as long as you mention booze everyone is gonna come running to your party lol
 
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When you invite her, make her expect nothing short of excitement in the party you're throwing.

With the right amount of enthusiasm, tell her "Hey, I've got an amazing party coming soon (tell her when, theme of party), and I'd like to personally invite you. If you haven't had anything else scheduled for your springbreak, book yourself for this party. You won't regret coming."

If she agrees, exchange numbers so she can contact you for directions to the party, or for more information.

It's that easy. Just play your cool right.
 
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lol dude people in highscool dont "book" themselves for a party. they just got lol. and theres usually no theme unless its like halloween or sumtin.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ask for her number; "Put your number in here" (hand her your phone)

Continue; "I'm throwing a party over break, call me if you want directions."

Call the number she put in before you leave so she has your number.

You took the lead, but you put the ball in her court so to speak. Now you will know if she is interested or not.
 
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