"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Invite Tinder hoes to the house for the first date?

nicksaiz65

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I’m back at home for a limited amount of time before I go back to school. I’ve gotten some good matches on Tinder with some hot girls. I usually fvck girls on the second date, but I don’t really have time for that now.

So my question is, do you all ever just invite a Tinder or OLD hoe over to the house for the first date? I was thinking something like “how do you feel about drinks and a movie?” I happen to have a small home theater so that could work pretty well for me I think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who Dares Win

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I suggest you not to bring girls you dont really know where you live, actually I wouldnt even share my second name with them.

Nowdays you can really find fvcked up people, plus you may need to disappear in future and its hard to do it if she knows where you live.
 

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I’m back at home for a limited amount of time before I go back to school. I’ve gotten some good matches on Tinder with some hot girls. I usually fvck girls on the second date, but I don’t really have time for that now.

So my question is, do you all ever just invite a Tinder or OLD hoe over to the house for the first date? I was thinking something like “how do you feel about drinks and a movie?” I happen to have a small home theater so that could work pretty well for me I think.
I’ve done it before. About 70% I was happy about them coming over. But the other 30%, well, I wanted them to walk away right when they showed up. They didn’t look like their photos!

The thing with this is.. they are DTF if they are coming straight over with no date to be had before. And that’s great if they fall in to the aforementioned 70%, but if it’s the 30%.. well, now you’re now stuck with someone who you don’t want in your house, who you don’t even want to flirt with or touch. So you may end up watching a movie with a weirdo in your place. And it’s just odd. But if she does make a move on you, it’ll feel like you’re kissing your sister.. haha ugggh

So to avoid this... and have a 100% rate; meet them at a grocery store or convenient store close to your place to grab some movie snacks. And if you’re not attracted because they don’t look like their photos or you’re not feeling it, you can easily tell them how you feel without revealing your home address or anything personal. You needed movie snacks anyways so nothing was out of your way or a waste of time, right?
 

Who Dares Win

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I’ve done it before. About 70% I was happy about them coming over. But the other 30%, well, I wanted them to walk away right when they showed up. They didn’t look like their photos!

The thing with this is.. they are DTF if they are coming straight over with no date to be had before. And that’s great if they fall in to the aforementioned 70%, but if it’s the 30%.. well, now you’re now stuck with someone who you don’t want in your house, who you don’t even want to flirt with or touch. So you may end up watching a movie with a weirdo in your place. And it’s just odd. But if she does make a move on you, it’ll feel like you’re kissing your sister.. haha ugggh

So to avoid this... and have a 100% rate; meet them at a grocery store or convenient store close to your place to grab some movie snacks. And if you’re not attracted because they don’t look like their photos or you’re not feeling it, you can easily tell them how you feel without revealing your home address or anything personal. You needed movie snacks anyways so nothing was out of your way or a waste of time, right?
Sounds a better plan but still too risky for my taste, I would avoid anything in a 5km ratio from when you sleep at least in the current social setting.

Subway its a blessing cause it allows you to be far enough but at the same time get ready at hom quickly with no hassle.

The only time I would suggest a place close to my home would be a lukewarm girl that may flake, in that case you didnt lose time or money but again Im dont set date with girls that Im not convinced.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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People on this forum sound like preppers sometimes. Be smart about who you invite over of course but, worst case scenario, you’ll get a girl who doesn’t look like her pictures, and you can just kick her out.
 
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