"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Invite in the first few hours chating... Is it a problem?

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I'm observing some weird stuff... not now on corona crisis, but before.

Some girls follow me on instagram, some start to talk and some I go and send a message. We have a good talk, she demonstrated interest... so after some time talking I just invite her to a date.

Most of them say yes, and schedule a day... but when the day comes she find a excused and give up. Some ones come after to talk, but when I invite they even answer.

Idk if I was too long on a LTR but it seems something dramatically changed. I don't even waste my time on Tinder anymore, it's even worse.

Not to say if I found a feminist or leftist woman, that there is a bunch of them out there here in brazil.

So what is working nowadays? I may be doing something wrong. I have some plates, so I'm not desperate for sex... But it's good to get new girls. But it's getting really weird.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Supply of thirsty men online. So she is gets validation from them and keeps them there? Im not really active on social media.

Too many men validating her so her perception of herself is unusually high. Unless youre a ripped billionaire, she will string you along as an option and waste time.
 
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isasda66 said:
Supply of thirsty men online. So she is gets validation from them and keeps them there? Im not really active on social media.

Too many men validating her so her perception of herself is unusually high. Unless youre a ripped billionaire, she will string you along as an option and waste time.
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That's sad but true... Some years ago it doesn't seem to happen like those days.

But as almost everyone uses instagram, facebook, etc... What strategy may work? Going outside (risk of feminist acuse you of abuse? haha) ?
 
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Find yourself a woman in the real world who has no facebook or instagram, they exist and they're quite a bit more tolerable than high maintenance b!tches you find all day on social media.

That said, hold on and wait to see what happens after the virus passes. It's going to throw a wrench into everything dating-related for at least a while
 
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