"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Introductions

mang0

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Say a friend or somebody is introducing you to a girl or a group of girls. How do you introduce yourself? The talking part is easy, hi my name is blah blah blah, hows it going.

As far as physical contact goes, what do you do? do you shake hands, just give them a wave?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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if its a small group and your physicaly close enough, go straight in with the kiss on the cheek, instant confidence and recognition from the girl/s
 

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betheman said:
if its a small group and your physicaly close enough, go straight in with the kiss on the cheek, instant confidence and recognition from the girl/s
Show me where that is socially acceptable for an American to do at a place located in the US
 

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Ah! cant do that, Im English
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Diaforetikos said:
Over analyzing. There not gonna even remember your introduction. Stop tripping.
Hmm okay. You don't think introductions are that big of a deal, even when youre with a group of guy friends? I guess i could be over analyzing it a bit.
 
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