"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Say a friend or somebody is introducing you to a girl or a group of girls. How do you introduce yourself? The talking part is easy, hi my name is blah blah blah, hows it going.

As far as physical contact goes, what do you do? do you shake hands, just give them a wave?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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if its a small group and your physicaly close enough, go straight in with the kiss on the cheek, instant confidence and recognition from the girl/s
 
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betheman said:
if its a small group and your physicaly close enough, go straight in with the kiss on the cheek, instant confidence and recognition from the girl/s
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Show me where that is socially acceptable for an American to do at a place located in the US
 
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Ah! cant do that, Im English
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Diaforetikos said:
Over analyzing. There not gonna even remember your introduction. Stop tripping.
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Hmm okay. You don't think introductions are that big of a deal, even when youre with a group of guy friends? I guess i could be over analyzing it a bit.
 
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