"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LuffyYim

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Hello,

I am in the midst of swallowing the red pill after a recent break up. Yet these emotions, which men are supposed to dispose of, inhibit my ability to consume the pill. A lot of buffers in my mind occur before I think of approaching ultimately leading to me simply rejecting myself. "What if she thinks I'm just some pervert/creep?" "What if she tells her friend of how I'm so desperate?" "What if people that overheard laugh at me?" "I don't need to talk to that girl, hopefully she'll talk to me."

Although I have read countless advice on how to ignore these thoughts, it only proves that experience is the best teacher. This marks the beginning of my venture to becoming a "DJ." However, not simply for seduction but to become the healthiest, interdependent man I can become. A man who reeks of charisma the second he walks into the room.

I have made this account to record my progress and to make sure the promises I made to myself are recorded. First step is to beat the intolerable approach to turn it into a game.

Thank you,
If anyone has any advice, please do not hesitate.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Roober

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Welcome!

Read...
-the DJ bible
-The book of Pook
-The predatory female - although some of this stuff is a bit extreme for me
-Anti-dump's machine

You can also pickup some good books...
-The Rational Male - Rollo Tomassi
-Way of the Superior Man - David Deida
-How to be a 3% Man - Corey Wayne - some people don't like his stuff, but generally has good insight (he also has a TON of videos on youtube) - he is a good starting point for guys like me that knew absolutely nothing about the game...

Ton of good videos on youtube, can't remember the names

Biggest advice on your new adventure? Don't take this stuff as black and white! Relationships are very complex and there is not one way to navigate every woman. These resources provide the tools you need for YOU to navigate women!
 

LuffyYim

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Welcome!

Read...
-the DJ bible
-The book of Pook
-The predatory female - although some of this stuff is a bit extreme for me
-Anti-dump's machine

You can also pickup some good books...
-The Rational Male - Rollo Tomassi
-Way of the Superior Man - David Deida
-How to be a 3% Man - Corey Wayne - some people don't like his stuff, but generally has good insight (he also has a TON of videos on youtube) - he is a good starting point for guys like me that knew absolutely nothing about the game...

Ton of good videos on youtube, can't remember the names

Biggest advice on your new adventure? Don't take this stuff as black and white! Relationships are very complex and there is not one way to navigate every woman. These resources provide the tools you need for YOU to navigate women!
I can't locate Anti-Dump's machine.

Has all the contents been disposed of?
Seems paradoxical to "Anti-Dump's" name.
 
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