"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LuffyYim

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Hello,

I am in the midst of swallowing the red pill after a recent break up. Yet these emotions, which men are supposed to dispose of, inhibit my ability to consume the pill. A lot of buffers in my mind occur before I think of approaching ultimately leading to me simply rejecting myself. "What if she thinks I'm just some pervert/creep?" "What if she tells her friend of how I'm so desperate?" "What if people that overheard laugh at me?" "I don't need to talk to that girl, hopefully she'll talk to me."

Although I have read countless advice on how to ignore these thoughts, it only proves that experience is the best teacher. This marks the beginning of my venture to becoming a "DJ." However, not simply for seduction but to become the healthiest, interdependent man I can become. A man who reeks of charisma the second he walks into the room.

I have made this account to record my progress and to make sure the promises I made to myself are recorded. First step is to beat the intolerable approach to turn it into a game.

Thank you,
If anyone has any advice, please do not hesitate.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Roober

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Welcome!

Read...
-the DJ bible
-The book of Pook
-The predatory female - although some of this stuff is a bit extreme for me
-Anti-dump's machine

You can also pickup some good books...
-The Rational Male - Rollo Tomassi
-Way of the Superior Man - David Deida
-How to be a 3% Man - Corey Wayne - some people don't like his stuff, but generally has good insight (he also has a TON of videos on youtube) - he is a good starting point for guys like me that knew absolutely nothing about the game...

Ton of good videos on youtube, can't remember the names

Biggest advice on your new adventure? Don't take this stuff as black and white! Relationships are very complex and there is not one way to navigate every woman. These resources provide the tools you need for YOU to navigate women!
 

LuffyYim

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Welcome!

Read...
-the DJ bible
-The book of Pook
-The predatory female - although some of this stuff is a bit extreme for me
-Anti-dump's machine

You can also pickup some good books...
-The Rational Male - Rollo Tomassi
-Way of the Superior Man - David Deida
-How to be a 3% Man - Corey Wayne - some people don't like his stuff, but generally has good insight (he also has a TON of videos on youtube) - he is a good starting point for guys like me that knew absolutely nothing about the game...

Ton of good videos on youtube, can't remember the names

Biggest advice on your new adventure? Don't take this stuff as black and white! Relationships are very complex and there is not one way to navigate every woman. These resources provide the tools you need for YOU to navigate women!
I can't locate Anti-Dump's machine.

Has all the contents been disposed of?
Seems paradoxical to "Anti-Dump's" name.
 
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