"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dutchmaster

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Fellow DJs, I went to the mall today to practice some day game, and while leaving I thought of something that is either completely brilliant or extremely creepy, curious as to what the rest of you think.

I'm very sexual and let my intentions be known right off the bat with women, so I figured after a brief opener, maybe a giggle or 2 out of her I would ask her for her name and go to shake her hand. But as she gives me her hand I would pick it up kiss it and say something like "pleasure to meet you *insert name*" with a big grin. What do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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headFirst

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I think you'd prob come off as creepy honestly. I mean unless you look like a model, or like you belong on one of those erotic birthday cards from spencers..
 

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Reeks of effort.

"Hey, lady. Don't you see how sexy I am? I am kissing your hand. And smiling."

I mean, whatever works for you. I'm not a "natural", but I have plenty of natural friends...never seen anyone do your routine before.
 

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I could see it being a little creepy, maybe, but I'm not sure about extremely. It doesn't seem like you have a terrible amount to lose by trying it though.
 

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Seems creepy but you can always try it out on a girl and then get your answer that way.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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loveshogun

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Iceberg said:
I mean, whatever works for you. I'm not a "natural", but I have plenty of natural friends...never seen anyone do your routine before.
I have pulled off the "kissing the hand thing," a few times before, but only at formal events. It helps to know ballroom dancing.

Anyway, it's just, like anything else, part of an image. If you seem like you're forcing it, it won't work.

Also, again, context. Formal events, ****tail parties, this kind of thing can be great. Works for me.

I wouldn't do it in a mall.
 

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Eugh, kissing hand = sleeze.

How about just talking to her and smiling like she's a normal human being.
 
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