"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Introducing Oneself Late

labyrinth

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What is the best way to introduce yourself to a chick if you failed to do it the first couple of times. There is someone I have met on the street and briefly spoke to but being an idiot I never bothered to introduce myself, ask her name, etc.Next time I see her I need to do it for sure but just saying "hi, my name is..." seems a bit stupid after failing to do it earlier. Should I say something that indicates I should have done this earlier?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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moto

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its not a problem.

Just say " I never got your name...."

thats all you don't have to be creative
 

labyrinth

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That makes alot of sense. I probably am overthinking shi t like I usually do and trying to make this overcomplicated.
 
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