"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Introducing Oneself Late

labyrinth

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What is the best way to introduce yourself to a chick if you failed to do it the first couple of times. There is someone I have met on the street and briefly spoke to but being an idiot I never bothered to introduce myself, ask her name, etc.Next time I see her I need to do it for sure but just saying "hi, my name is..." seems a bit stupid after failing to do it earlier. Should I say something that indicates I should have done this earlier?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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moto

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its not a problem.

Just say " I never got your name...."

thats all you don't have to be creative
 

labyrinth

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That makes alot of sense. I probably am overthinking shi t like I usually do and trying to make this overcomplicated.
 
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