"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Introducing myself, what I'm here for.

AF77

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Since I'm going to be around a while annoying the **** out of people with questions I thought I'd say a quick hello.
I'm a fitness model for a few companies randomly, and computer specialist, still in college, upper years. I make about 350 a week, and pay all my own bills, so I'm making just enough to date comfortably, haha.
If you have any questions about dieting, getting hyooge, pharmacy, drugs, supps, I'm probably the man to ask.
If you have a question about dancing, I am NOT the man to ask :p
My biggest deal is holding women on a pedestal, and One-itis. I have read most of the articles here, but can use some reminder. I am either really really good looking, or pretty rough looking (Bulking and cutting, sodium issues, it's a model thing...).
I don't drink or do drugs, period. But I play with supplements and legal **** you guys didn't know existed ;). I like all sorts of music.
I'm in TN.
Can a mod/admin change my name from AF 77 to A77 please?

And if you ever need anyone to just talk to, pm me and I'll get you my AIM, MSN, even maybe my cell after a while. I generally like everybody.

Any questions? Thanks everybody.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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WC2

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Let me guess Abercrombie and Fitch 77?

I was in that "get hyoooge" phase for awhile back in my early college days. I'd spend more time at the gym getting bigger than getting smarter. Go figure.

Well, here's the truth AF-- women don't care how big you are. Actually the fact that you spend that much time in the gym is a turn off to women. Why would women want a guy who's more worried about his proteins and amino acids than having fun? Guys who take themselves too seriously make women's vaginas shrivel up.

No drinking or drugs? Can't really hate on that. Ask yourself however, are you keeping these healthy habits to keep that physique (meaning you're ultimately doing this for women) or are you doing this to live a healthy life style and in short live a longer life?

Life is short and I see too many guys waste their life away in the gym while they can be out doing what's most important in my opinion - making friends and acquaintances and having great memories to look back on.

Sure, I'll hit the gym 2 - 3 times a week for a short time. I admit, I still have a little of that meathead in me. But I've realized that by ramping back on my gym routine, I've ramped up on being a better person to be around.

Welcome to the forums.
 

oakraiderz2

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Uh..thanks sunshine. Good to know youre a model and what not. How about the rest of your life story...
 

AF77

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WC2, you have to be kidding me.

I enjoy my gym time. So do a **** ton of other males/females.
I don't know what that rant was about.

But thanks for the welcome?

EDIT: Hopefully I can help someone out here with whatever knowledge I have. I don't know what the attitude problems are about, but maybe I'm just not accustomed to epic *******s.
*******/Jerk != Man, or Alpha Male.
 

619joe

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So what if he works out and keeps fit?Give the man his props right there.It definatly DOESNT do harm if you are fit and built infact it shows much dedication.Besides this guy isnt getting fit just for girls,its for benefiting his life.As long as you arent wasting your time excessively becoming a huge monkey then its fine

Just dont go around bragging and you should be fine man.Unless they really want to know then maybe tell them but keep it on the DL.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AF77

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yeah

I've never once told a female I was a model. Seriously.
I wouldn't be on this site if I didn't need some tips and have questions, obviously.

Model's, unless they are douchebags, are typically exceptionally modest about what they do. Atleast the ones I know. And i don't know many.

Abercrombie and Fitch 77? No man...
 

MikeYikes122

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AF77 said:
WC2, you have to be kidding me.

I enjoy my gym time. So do a **** ton of other males/females.
I don't know what that rant was about.

But thanks for the welcome?

EDIT: Hopefully I can help someone out here with whatever knowledge I have. I don't know what the attitude problems are about, but maybe I'm just not accustomed to epic *******s.
*******/Jerk != Man, or Alpha Male.
There was a whole lot of truth to what he said. It can be summed up in one quick sentence. Exercising and lifting weights is a good way to enrich your life, but it shouldn't become your life.

In college, I knew tons of dudes who fell into this category. One in particular did Strong Man competitions. The guy was overly obsessive about supplements, his diet and his workout routine to the point that it interfered with his regular life. In fact, he really didn't even have a regular life.

While girls found him good to look at, none of them ever got into bed with him or dated him.

I have no idea if any of that applies to the OP, but I do know that it's something to be aware of.
 

Darth

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Welcome to the site dude. You sound really cool. Your description sounds like me, minus the body;)
 
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