"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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In the present

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Hi everyone, this is where I present myself.
I've been lurking on this kind of forum for some time. I've tried techniques here and there but rarely on strangers. I have difficulties with cold approach. I'm not a virgin. I'm on a 2 years dry spell (this has to end).And well I'm quite desperate to better my love life.
Being super shy, and crippled by limiting belief, I can struggle to meet new people but sometimes, I seem to forget all that and focus on the positive. I have good days and bad days, I would like more good days.
I'll be seeking help if you are willing to give it. I am open minded so give any tips that's not KJ.

I hope to get half as good as most of you, and then help newbie's in return.

See ya'll.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GettinMyMindRight said:
I'm not much for gimmicky lines, But this one does work well for me when I approach a group of 2 or more girls:

ME: (as I'm walking by, look over shoulder at them, point your finger at them curiously)

"ARE YOU GUYS TALKING ABOUT ME?" (serious look)

THEM: (looking confused) "NO."

YOU: (slight smile as you shrug your shoulders a bit in bewilderment)

"WHY NOT?" (immediately follow that question with a handshake and introduction)


The key here is the immediate introduction after asking "why not?" Otherwise, you look awkward.
Good stuff! I'll try that when I'm less awkward.
 

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You are so ****ing useful. I will do that but right now I'm focus on daygame (with work I can't at night).
thanks
 

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Good stuff man, welcome to the forums! I'm new here as well but read up,keep working it and things will turn around for ya
 

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You can also try hitting up places like salsa lessons.
They're usually ratios heavily towards women.
You get up close (cos you have to to do it) and you get to chat and break down some of the barriers you have with talking to women
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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