"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In the present

Don Juan
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Hi everyone, this is where I present myself.
I've been lurking on this kind of forum for some time. I've tried techniques here and there but rarely on strangers. I have difficulties with cold approach. I'm not a virgin. I'm on a 2 years dry spell (this has to end).And well I'm quite desperate to better my love life.
Being super shy, and crippled by limiting belief, I can struggle to meet new people but sometimes, I seem to forget all that and focus on the positive. I have good days and bad days, I would like more good days.
I'll be seeking help if you are willing to give it. I am open minded so give any tips that's not KJ.

I hope to get half as good as most of you, and then help newbie's in return.

See ya'll.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GettinMyMindRight said:
I'm not much for gimmicky lines, But this one does work well for me when I approach a group of 2 or more girls:

ME: (as I'm walking by, look over shoulder at them, point your finger at them curiously)

"ARE YOU GUYS TALKING ABOUT ME?" (serious look)

THEM: (looking confused) "NO."

YOU: (slight smile as you shrug your shoulders a bit in bewilderment)

"WHY NOT?" (immediately follow that question with a handshake and introduction)


The key here is the immediate introduction after asking "why not?" Otherwise, you look awkward.
Good stuff! I'll try that when I'm less awkward.
 

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You are so ****ing useful. I will do that but right now I'm focus on daygame (with work I can't at night).
thanks
 

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Good stuff man, welcome to the forums! I'm new here as well but read up,keep working it and things will turn around for ya
 

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You can also try hitting up places like salsa lessons.
They're usually ratios heavily towards women.
You get up close (cos you have to to do it) and you get to chat and break down some of the barriers you have with talking to women
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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