Intro and a question.

[Baba Oriley]

Recent convert so bear with me.
I'm a54 year old man worked out my entire life. I'm in good shape,no fat.I have gray hair,but I have all of it.
Read Rollo's book which is how I got here.
Married 22 years. No children. First marriage for both of us.
I'm in a sexless marriage and have been unhappy for a long time. I found Rollo's book 1/16/19 and read it in three days , then I read it again. Been lurking here for three weeks or so.
Typing this has been very depressing.
Anyway here is my question. I shoot a lot of trap. A young girl 25 or so shoots every couple of weeks or so. She got into a conversation with me about gun fit and I helped her with somethings. ( Part of a shotgun is called the butt of the gun.)
So today she showed up shoots a bit and starts a conversation with me about her gun I reiterated a couple of things with her and she says " I remember you telling me that last time, when I showed you my butt"
It just caught me off guard. Can/will a woman escalate this quick or am I reading her wrong.
She didn't say when I showed you the butt of my gun or just my gun, instead she says when I showed you my butt.
Opinions.

 

[lamath]

You still married?

Dont do anything you will regret if you are.

Imo a dj would would have done is amplify what she just said in a funny way.

Something like - yeah yeah that nicely shape butt you showed me the other day.

 

[Serenity]

Make an exit plan for your marriage, one that won't fvck you over. Be smart. Then go make yourself happy.

About what she said, that's called flirting.

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

Recent convert so bear with me.
I'm a54 year old man worked out my entire life. I'm in good shape,no fat.I have gray hair,but I have all of it.
Read Rollo's book which is how I got here.
Married 22 years. No children. First marriage for both of us.
I'm in a sexless marriage and have been unhappy for a long time. I found Rollo's book 1/16/19 and read it in three days , then I read it again. Been lurking here for three weeks or so.
Typing this has been very depressing.
Anyway here is my question. I shoot a lot of trap. A young girl 25 or so shoots every couple of weeks or so. She got into a conversation with me about gun fit and I helped her with somethings. ( Part of a shotgun is called the butt of the gun.)
So today she showed up shoots a bit and starts a conversation with me about her gun I reiterated a couple of things with her and she says " I remember you telling me that last time, when I showed you my butt"
It just caught me off guard. Can/will a woman escalate this quick or am I reading her wrong.
She didn't say when I showed you the butt of my gun or just my gun, instead she says when I showed you my butt.
Opinions.

Why are you still married?

-Augustus-