"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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- Thread starter Peachez
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I FEEL THE POWER!!!
The future looks bleak for the man that attempts to asses the reasons for random girls fluctuating IL's.
And to the other DJ's....... CALL ME NOW!!!
Then she gives me the cold shoulder a couple of days later,weird but it happens and you have to move on. There could be soo many reason why it happened but move on,it wasn't meant to be either way.-Reasons why they could be PRO you then CON you the next,you made them feel like a slut when they look back on the date,their friends trash talk you(it happens).
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Senior Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Is that what you said? Seeing a girl every stinking day is a bad idea. That could be it right there.
BUT
You're probably not the only guy she's dated in the last few months. Maybe she just got serious with a guy she's been seeing for a while. When you get a new gf, you would want her to cut the funny business with the other guys, eh? So very often, it's nothing you did.
DON'T push it, just smooth talk her until she trusts and confides with you(about two, three talks should do) Wait for the next inevitable argument and she will seek you out. I think you know what to do from there. Remember, if you push too hard and she starts to pull away because of the BF, you could potentially mess it up for good. Happy Trails.