"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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- Thread starter Peachez
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I FEEL THE POWER!!!
The future looks bleak for the man that attempts to asses the reasons for random girls fluctuating IL's.
And to the other DJ's....... CALL ME NOW!!!
Then she gives me the cold shoulder a couple of days later,weird but it happens and you have to move on. There could be soo many reason why it happened but move on,it wasn't meant to be either way.-Reasons why they could be PRO you then CON you the next,you made them feel like a slut when they look back on the date,their friends trash talk you(it happens).
dap
Senior Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Is that what you said? Seeing a girl every stinking day is a bad idea. That could be it right there.
BUT
You're probably not the only guy she's dated in the last few months. Maybe she just got serious with a guy she's been seeing for a while. When you get a new gf, you would want her to cut the funny business with the other guys, eh? So very often, it's nothing you did.
DON'T push it, just smooth talk her until she trusts and confides with you(about two, three talks should do) Wait for the next inevitable argument and she will seek you out. I think you know what to do from there. Remember, if you push too hard and she starts to pull away because of the BF, you could potentially mess it up for good. Happy Trails.