"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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- Thread starter Peachez
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I FEEL THE POWER!!!
The future looks bleak for the man that attempts to asses the reasons for random girls fluctuating IL's.
And to the other DJ's....... CALL ME NOW!!!
Then she gives me the cold shoulder a couple of days later,weird but it happens and you have to move on. There could be soo many reason why it happened but move on,it wasn't meant to be either way.-Reasons why they could be PRO you then CON you the next,you made them feel like a slut when they look back on the date,their friends trash talk you(it happens).
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Senior Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Is that what you said? Seeing a girl every stinking day is a bad idea. That could be it right there.
BUT
You're probably not the only guy she's dated in the last few months. Maybe she just got serious with a guy she's been seeing for a while. When you get a new gf, you would want her to cut the funny business with the other guys, eh? So very often, it's nothing you did.
DON'T push it, just smooth talk her until she trusts and confides with you(about two, three talks should do) Wait for the next inevitable argument and she will seek you out. I think you know what to do from there. Remember, if you push too hard and she starts to pull away because of the BF, you could potentially mess it up for good. Happy Trails.