"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Intrest levels confusing to me.

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Ok well,
Basically i'm at a loss to explain why girls one minute are messaging you there number and saying how they want to go out for a drink ... then the next kinda losing intrest.

Plus my ex warned this girl off talking to me after seeing me write on her wall on Facebook ... it went as far as the girl she warned off telling her boyfriend to tell her to stop.

I just don't get why women go hot and cold.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have noticed all the articles on here mostly talk about getting a interaction, a few smiles, laughs and getting a phone number. anyone can do this. getting a phone number means nothing anymore. it is what is done next that counts, but there is not that much information on here about that or any site.
 
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thedude4242 said:
I have noticed all the articles on here mostly talk about getting a interaction, a few smiles, laughs and getting a phone number. anyone can do this. getting a phone number means nothing anymore. it is what is done next that counts, but there is not that much information on here about that or any site.
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...because what comes after aint easy to control, and so many little things can ruin your success. But on the other hand if there is chemistry going on and it feels right- it's bound to happen anyway.
 
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well that is what most men need to work on. that is the hard part. someone needs to write good information about that. I say you get a girls number and you will see her on a weekly basis dont bother calling her looking for a date. that is why they flake. try it for a while and see how great you do. why be like all the other men she rejects and call them looking for a date.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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And be patient. I've had a gal from POF either "flake" on me this afternoon or something came up because she's not answering her phone (called 2x within a hour). That's ok, because I've got another who I'm 90% sure Will Not flake on me tonight. I aim to fvck her all night. I have back-ups for this one too, but Really don't want to call some of the backups, but I WILL. All of these hoes are easily replaced which is why non of their sh!t phases me anymore.
 
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maqnetik said:
stop rewarding their confusion with energy. be consistent.
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I think I like this statement. could you please explain it to me. poonani maker I like yours also.


can some mens problems actually be that they dont try enough. I know I have done this, but I am going to make myself look like a sissy and let them think they can have me when they want me.
 
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