"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Intrest levels confusing to me.

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Ok well,
Basically i'm at a loss to explain why girls one minute are messaging you there number and saying how they want to go out for a drink ... then the next kinda losing intrest.

Plus my ex warned this girl off talking to me after seeing me write on her wall on Facebook ... it went as far as the girl she warned off telling her boyfriend to tell her to stop.

I just don't get why women go hot and cold.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have noticed all the articles on here mostly talk about getting a interaction, a few smiles, laughs and getting a phone number. anyone can do this. getting a phone number means nothing anymore. it is what is done next that counts, but there is not that much information on here about that or any site.
 

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thedude4242 said:
I have noticed all the articles on here mostly talk about getting a interaction, a few smiles, laughs and getting a phone number. anyone can do this. getting a phone number means nothing anymore. it is what is done next that counts, but there is not that much information on here about that or any site.
...because what comes after aint easy to control, and so many little things can ruin your success. But on the other hand if there is chemistry going on and it feels right- it's bound to happen anyway.
 

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well that is what most men need to work on. that is the hard part. someone needs to write good information about that. I say you get a girls number and you will see her on a weekly basis dont bother calling her looking for a date. that is why they flake. try it for a while and see how great you do. why be like all the other men she rejects and call them looking for a date.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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And be patient. I've had a gal from POF either "flake" on me this afternoon or something came up because she's not answering her phone (called 2x within a hour). That's ok, because I've got another who I'm 90% sure Will Not flake on me tonight. I aim to fvck her all night. I have back-ups for this one too, but Really don't want to call some of the backups, but I WILL. All of these hoes are easily replaced which is why non of their sh!t phases me anymore.
 

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maqnetik said:
stop rewarding their confusion with energy. be consistent.


I think I like this statement. could you please explain it to me. poonani maker I like yours also.


can some mens problems actually be that they dont try enough. I know I have done this, but I am going to make myself look like a sissy and let them think they can have me when they want me.
 
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