"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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intrest level , gay choices is it ever to late to change?

christz

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For my own knowlege.. i understand pretty well about intrest level, it makes sense but is it ever to late to change the game?

Doc love says intrest level doesn't rocket to the ground instantly unless she caught you cheating or something of the sort. It drops over the period of weeks or months. Everybody makes mistakes that's basiclly what the doc was saying.

however is it ever to late to change the game? on how you been acting? I've only done it once and it worked for me.. but i'm tryign to remember what exactly i did. LOL so i can repeat it with future females, such as the one i'm talking to now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good_ol_boy

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Uh! From the title, I thought you wanted to stop dating guys and start going with girls.:D
 

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Lol no this is about changeing around the game.. thing is i think i'm coming to the realization that this girl i'm talking to still has a b/f and i'm loseing my grip on her.. she still calls me back if i call.. and she still goes through with about 30% of our plans together.. but i can feel the slippage.

i know she's compareing me to him, i've impresed her on more than on occasion but i need to know when is to late to turn the game around espieclly in such a critical time. its NOT LIKE i'm stealing her away from this guy.. He's had more than one chance and its time to get him off the board.. and put me on there.

I acted like a pu$$y bytch on more than one occasions i even hung up on her when she broke plans with me lucky for me she actully appoligized to me..

I can't continue being like this OBVIOUSLY and as much as i hate to say it.. i need to know how long the AFC progression went with guys who have failed this courtship in the past.. currently i'm middle of the road with my AFC moves i do them.. then i don't but i never fully press her with the ****.

And thus brings around the question is it ever to late to change the game?

what Santos says in this thread is a perfect example of what i'm attempting to get at

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=37972&highlight=strung+along

how long was the progression of the bad AFC moves was it a month? a week? a few days?
 

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Honestly take my years of experience on this.

Never mess with a chick with a boyfriend. They love to use single guys to prop up their egos.

They are a complete and total waste of time other than using them for social proof when you go out picking up other girls.
 

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Originally posted by Ricky
Honestly take my years of experience on this.

Never mess with a chick with a boyfriend. They love to use single guys to prop up their egos.

They are a complete and total waste of time other than using them for social proof when you go out picking up other girls.
they've broken up more times than i can count on my two hands.. this guy is no good.. it would be different if he was a good guy and she was just looking for somebody else.. but that's another issue not assoicated with this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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