"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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intrest level , gay choices is it ever to late to change?

christz

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For my own knowlege.. i understand pretty well about intrest level, it makes sense but is it ever to late to change the game?

Doc love says intrest level doesn't rocket to the ground instantly unless she caught you cheating or something of the sort. It drops over the period of weeks or months. Everybody makes mistakes that's basiclly what the doc was saying.

however is it ever to late to change the game? on how you been acting? I've only done it once and it worked for me.. but i'm tryign to remember what exactly i did. LOL so i can repeat it with future females, such as the one i'm talking to now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Uh! From the title, I thought you wanted to stop dating guys and start going with girls.:D
 

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Lol no this is about changeing around the game.. thing is i think i'm coming to the realization that this girl i'm talking to still has a b/f and i'm loseing my grip on her.. she still calls me back if i call.. and she still goes through with about 30% of our plans together.. but i can feel the slippage.

i know she's compareing me to him, i've impresed her on more than on occasion but i need to know when is to late to turn the game around espieclly in such a critical time. its NOT LIKE i'm stealing her away from this guy.. He's had more than one chance and its time to get him off the board.. and put me on there.

I acted like a pu$$y bytch on more than one occasions i even hung up on her when she broke plans with me lucky for me she actully appoligized to me..

I can't continue being like this OBVIOUSLY and as much as i hate to say it.. i need to know how long the AFC progression went with guys who have failed this courtship in the past.. currently i'm middle of the road with my AFC moves i do them.. then i don't but i never fully press her with the ****.

And thus brings around the question is it ever to late to change the game?

what Santos says in this thread is a perfect example of what i'm attempting to get at

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=37972&highlight=strung+along

how long was the progression of the bad AFC moves was it a month? a week? a few days?
 

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Honestly take my years of experience on this.

Never mess with a chick with a boyfriend. They love to use single guys to prop up their egos.

They are a complete and total waste of time other than using them for social proof when you go out picking up other girls.
 

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Originally posted by Ricky
Honestly take my years of experience on this.

Never mess with a chick with a boyfriend. They love to use single guys to prop up their egos.

They are a complete and total waste of time other than using them for social proof when you go out picking up other girls.
they've broken up more times than i can count on my two hands.. this guy is no good.. it would be different if he was a good guy and she was just looking for somebody else.. but that's another issue not assoicated with this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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