"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I went to the mall yesterday with a buddy of mine. There were two HB 9's (Latinos) sitting adjacent to us a little farther away with their family. I looked at them and acknowledged they were there, but they never gave me eye contact back. Assuming they weren't interested, I forgot about them and began talking to my friend.

After ten minutes, they get up and stand right in my vision so that when I'm talking to my friend it's like I'm looking at them. However, whenever I looked at them, they wouldn't even give me any obvious eye contact. They would turn around and look in MY DIRECTION, BUT THEY WOULDN'T FUKING LOOK AT ME. It pissed the shyt out of me.

After a short time, their family comes and stands their for ten minutes with them. I looked at their mothers' (they were MILF material), and they would LOOK AROUND ME BUT NEVER ME, AND SMILE. WTF?

I didn't really think much of it, but this type of shyt usually happens to me. As I've already said, I have a face that borders "scary" more than it does attractive, so I don't think much of it.

If they are doing this cause they like me, then why make it so hard?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What is your nationality? If you're a white guy, it's an uphill climb getting the attention of hot latinas. Just because they didn't look at you doesn't mean much.
 
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Whenever a chick goes out of her way to get into your line of sight so that you obviously see her in your field of vision (as in your case when talking to your friend) it is an approach invitation--aka get over there and start talking to her/them.

Basically, it's their "subtle" way of conveying, "hey, I moved over here so you can see me now. Come over and talk to me." Girls do this all the time; you just gotta pick up on it an act on it.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by thecraftylefty
Whenever a chick goes out of her way to get into your line of sight so that you obviously see her in your field of vision (as in your case when talking to your friend) it is an approach invitation--aka get over there and start talking to her/them.

Basically, it's their "subtle" way of conveying, "hey, I moved over here so you can see me now. Come over and talk to me." Girls do this all the time; you just gotta pick up on it an act on it.

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I'm half hispanic and half indian. Yeah, I know what your saying, but if that is the case, WTF didn't she just give me direct eye contact.
 
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