"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Intimidation?

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I went to the mall yesterday with a buddy of mine. There were two HB 9's (Latinos) sitting adjacent to us a little farther away with their family. I looked at them and acknowledged they were there, but they never gave me eye contact back. Assuming they weren't interested, I forgot about them and began talking to my friend.

After ten minutes, they get up and stand right in my vision so that when I'm talking to my friend it's like I'm looking at them. However, whenever I looked at them, they wouldn't even give me any obvious eye contact. They would turn around and look in MY DIRECTION, BUT THEY WOULDN'T FUKING LOOK AT ME. It pissed the shyt out of me.

After a short time, their family comes and stands their for ten minutes with them. I looked at their mothers' (they were MILF material), and they would LOOK AROUND ME BUT NEVER ME, AND SMILE. WTF?

I didn't really think much of it, but this type of shyt usually happens to me. As I've already said, I have a face that borders "scary" more than it does attractive, so I don't think much of it.

If they are doing this cause they like me, then why make it so hard?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What is your nationality? If you're a white guy, it's an uphill climb getting the attention of hot latinas. Just because they didn't look at you doesn't mean much.
 
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Whenever a chick goes out of her way to get into your line of sight so that you obviously see her in your field of vision (as in your case when talking to your friend) it is an approach invitation--aka get over there and start talking to her/them.

Basically, it's their "subtle" way of conveying, "hey, I moved over here so you can see me now. Come over and talk to me." Girls do this all the time; you just gotta pick up on it an act on it.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by thecraftylefty
Whenever a chick goes out of her way to get into your line of sight so that you obviously see her in your field of vision (as in your case when talking to your friend) it is an approach invitation--aka get over there and start talking to her/them.

Basically, it's their "subtle" way of conveying, "hey, I moved over here so you can see me now. Come over and talk to me." Girls do this all the time; you just gotta pick up on it an act on it.

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I'm half hispanic and half indian. Yeah, I know what your saying, but if that is the case, WTF didn't she just give me direct eye contact.
 
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