I would consider myself a pretty attractive guy. My only problem is my attitude when I'm around other guys that are maybe bigger or more muscular than me. I tend to lock up. I don't express myself to my full potential when I'm in this position.
It seems that lately when I'm at a party or even just hanging out in class I seem to always pick out the more alpha type guys that are around and I automatically feel a competitive impulse come over me. I think its more of a subconcious thing going on.
This is screwing up my game. I know that most guys will try to avoid conflict if its in class and maybe even at a party, but I tend to think that if start to hit on girls that they already know I'm starting conflict. It seems that I can't free myself mentally to go through with the smooth, non-chalant person that I am.
I am needing some assistance because everyday I pass up opportunity after opportunity to meet beautiful girls. And it also seems like that if I do hit on "their" girls that I'm messing up my chances at every becoming friends with these guys.
Any suggestions?
It seems that lately when I'm at a party or even just hanging out in class I seem to always pick out the more alpha type guys that are around and I automatically feel a competitive impulse come over me. I think its more of a subconcious thing going on.
This is screwing up my game. I know that most guys will try to avoid conflict if its in class and maybe even at a party, but I tend to think that if start to hit on girls that they already know I'm starting conflict. It seems that I can't free myself mentally to go through with the smooth, non-chalant person that I am.
I am needing some assistance because everyday I pass up opportunity after opportunity to meet beautiful girls. And it also seems like that if I do hit on "their" girls that I'm messing up my chances at every becoming friends with these guys.
Any suggestions?