You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Originally posted by jprjrjr
Who said every white girl is craving black guys? Which racist comments are you talking about?Originally posted by DLxX
Calm the fvck down. All I said was that you can't use marriage statistics to get a valid picture of interracial relationships, because since society still attaches a stigma to interracial marriage, many people opt out of going that far, but it doesn't mean that the attraction isn't there, or that they've never experimented/dated. BTW man, even though you claim to be only concerned with this topic since its "bullshyt" I'm pretty sure most people here can see through that. What are you the "bullshyt" police or something? Do you get all riled up and make such lengthy posts on any post someone makes that contains "bullshyt"? No. The fact of the matter is IR bother you, whether you care to admit it or not. [/QUOTE\
This is getting fvcking boring, but as long as you keep it up, I'll keep defending my position.
1) Nobody said that SOME white women aren't attracted to different races. I said IT'S STILL RARE.
2) When SOME black guys like zolo come on here spewing bullshyt stereotypes and making racist comments, I'm going to call them on it.
3) Don't fvcking imply that I have a problem with "IR" relationships. What I do have a problem with is SOME black guys acting like every white girl is craving black men. That's bullshyt, and I'll call them on it.
You can never have a discussion on the facts with some of these guys. You prove them wrong, then they start implying you're racist, and ignore the blantantly racist comments from others of their same race.
P.S. Read heyjose's post. He summed it up quite well. It's funny how he understood what I was trying to say, but others can't.
Hey..it's the "Steve Urkel" of sosauve...fvcking black wimp... he gets the UGLIEST fvcking white chicks I've ever seen.Originally posted by zolo
Still waiting Jprjrjrjr, or don't you have any?
How about some of you with the guys you have hooked up with then?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Fatality,I think just about everybody would be open to dating outside their race these days but people for the most part prefer their own race. That's just the way it is.
Penkitten,by realising that a chick is a chick, no matter the color of her skin, its who she is inside that counts.
or maybe its just you grow up with say a white mom or a black mom etc, and go to school/grow up with other people of your colur, so therefore you learn to be attracted to your own race, or maybe it is just a natural thing.Originally posted by BrWnSugaMan
Fatality,
If we could find out why this happens then we could try to solve it. Maybe it's discrimination, prejudice, stereotyping.
I have still not even seen those ones yet. How about you do it right this time? Upload the pics to this site.Originally posted by jprjrjr
Hey..it's the "Steve Urkel" of sosauve...fvcking black wimp... he gets the UGLIEST fvcking white chicks I've ever seen.
You want pics of me and my CUTE white women? I'll send them to your e mail GEORGE........I hope your competent enough to open your e mail....since I had to post your fvcking pics for you here.
Many people are attracted to people that have the same qualities of their parents. Environment has something to do with it too. If there aren't many different ethnicities in your area that could have an effect and yes sometimes it has something to do with the three things you mentioned.Originally posted by BrWnSugaMan
Fatality,
This is part of the issue that we are debating about. The big question is WHY? Saying, "that's just the way it is" does not help us solve the problem. It just implies that this is the way the world is and we should just accept it. If we could find out why this happens then we could try to solve it. Maybe it's discrimination, prejudice, stereotyping.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hey Urkel, I sent some pics to your e mail. Quit using up time on the board. PM me if you want to talk further. I'd be more than happy to carry this agrument on with you off the board.Originally posted by zolo
jprjrjrjr
still waiting for those pics
Heads up on zolo. We found out the he lives only 15 minutes from me. I tried sending him pics repeatedly, and he doesn't get them. I offered to have him come here in person and see the pics, he refused.Originally posted by zolo
As I figured, I Yahoo Messengered this fool, and he punked out and never sent the pictures
Used more than a few racial slurs too
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Originally posted by zolo
I saved the whole IM conversation, and I can post it on here.
Black bas@ard
Nivver
aren't terms against my skin color.
You wanted me to come meet you at a millitary Base after sounding like a bunch of biggiots. OK I will be there with bells on.
I never said I got those pics of the web
That is a lie you told, just like you are lieing that you sent me pics
I know white chicks never hook up with Black Guys
Madonna
Carmen Electra
Pam Anderson
Paula Abdoul
Nikki Rotalano
Heidi Klum
Cindy Crawford
Nikki Zering
Sandra Bullock
Faith Hill
Jessica Alba
Brittney Spears
Christina Aguleria
Bo Derek
Many of the Playboy Playmates
And many other famous white girls who could have any man they want have all dated black guys.
All of these girls have admitted to dating black guys on the Howard Stern Show. Howrd always asks that question, and I would say the majority of the women say they have dated a black man at one time or another
Madonna- Married some white English dude.Originally posted by zolo
I saved the whole IM conversation, and I can post it on here.
Black bas@ard
Nivver
aren't terms against my skin color.
You wanted me to come meet you at a millitary Base after sounding like a bunch of biggiots. OK I will be there with bells on.
I never said I got those pics of the web
That is a lie you told, just like you are lieing that you sent me pics
I know white chicks never hook up with Black Guys
Madonna
Carmen Electra
Pam Anderson
Paula Abdoul
Nikki Rotalano
Heidi Klum
Cindy Crawford
Nikki Zering
Sandra Bullock
Faith Hill
Jessica Alba
Brittney Spears
Christina Aguleria
Bo Derek
Many of the Playboy Playmates
And many other famous white girls who could have any man they want have all dated black guys.
All of these girls have admitted to dating black guys on the Howard Stern Show. Howrd always asks that question, and I would say the majority of the women say they have dated a black man at one time or another
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.