School
Banned
I don't want to be anything, but me. i am secure in my skin. No, you didn't say I was black, but you are asking me to show pictures of me with hot white women.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Who the fvck said I was insecure? I get plenty of women. But when I hear someone talking bullshyt..i'm going to call them on it....Race doesn't matter to me, people's attitudes and character say a lot. When anyone talks shyt that isn't true. I'll fvcking call them on it. I love how you jag offs talk about insecurity. Calling bullshty where it's warranted isn't being insecure.Originally posted by School
Why does it matter!! You feel insecure?? You feel like black men are taking your white women away?? I don't care who is with who! It doesn't matter to me whether they are white or black. No biggy!
LEARN TO READ BYTCH..I SAID SHOW PICS OF THESE BLACK GUYS WITH HOT WOMEN...IF THERE ARE SO MANY WALKING AROUND YOUR TOWN..IT SHOULDN'T BE HARD TO POST SOME PICS...Originally posted by School
I don't want to be anything, but me. i am secure in my skin. No, you didn't say I was black, but you are asking me to show pictures of me with hot white women.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Oh ****..I'll post some of me and some hot white chicks...sounds funny coming from some fag who hasn't posted any pics yet.....Originally posted by School
Okay Jprjrjr, you posted a picture, of you, ALONE. WHere is your picture with your HOT white or black chick??
Not interested...****..I'll post some of me and some hot white chicks...
YOU COULDN'T MARRY ONE FAGGOT...POST THE FVCKING PICS ON HERE FAGOriginally posted by zolo
jprjrjR
IM ME YOUR EMAIL ADRESS. I WILL SEND YOU LOTS OF PICS OF ME AND MY BUDS WITH HOTTT WHITE CHICKS
I PMED YOU REPLY FOOL
PS
STATISTICS YOU STATED ARE FOR MARRIAGE. WE ARE TALKING ABOUT FVCKING, I BANGED PLENTY OF HOTT WHITE CHICKS, AND WOULDNT MARRY ONE
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No..they don't intimidate me...I think they intimidate you though...you seem to kiss azz on them real nice..Originally posted by School
Jprjrjr, you seem rather hostile. Black men intimidate you...?
\Originally posted by zolo
I DON'T KNOW HOW TO POST PICS HERE
, TELL ME HOW TO AND i WILL BE HAPPY TO
YOU'RE NEVER SHUTTING ME UP FAG..I WANNA SEE THESE PICS...Originally posted by zolo
ANYBODY TELL ME HOW TO POST PICS ON HERE SO I CAN SHUT THIS FOOL UP
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No *****..you're just scared to post your ugly azz white *****es....Did you get them from the Jerry Springer show audience?Originally posted by zolo
SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE THE FAG, YOU ARE THE ONE WHO WANTS TO SEE BROTHAS WITH YOUR GIRLS
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.