School
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I don't want to be anything, but me. i am secure in my skin. No, you didn't say I was black, but you are asking me to show pictures of me with hot white women.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
intimidated by white chicks.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Who the fvck said I was insecure? I get plenty of women. But when I hear someone talking bullshyt..i'm going to call them on it....Race doesn't matter to me, people's attitudes and character say a lot. When anyone talks shyt that isn't true. I'll fvcking call them on it. I love how you jag offs talk about insecurity. Calling bullshty where it's warranted isn't being insecure.Originally posted by School
Why does it matter!! You feel insecure?? You feel like black men are taking your white women away?? I don't care who is with who! It doesn't matter to me whether they are white or black. No biggy!
LEARN TO READ BYTCH..I SAID SHOW PICS OF THESE BLACK GUYS WITH HOT WOMEN...IF THERE ARE SO MANY WALKING AROUND YOUR TOWN..IT SHOULDN'T BE HARD TO POST SOME PICS...Originally posted by School
I don't want to be anything, but me. i am secure in my skin. No, you didn't say I was black, but you are asking me to show pictures of me with hot white women.
Frank Zappa
Senior Don Juan
This argument isn't even important... Just worry about yourself... If you want to date interracial, do it, if you don't, don't... All you really have any control over in this world is yourself, your actions, and your decisions. Who cares about statistics. They can in no way enable you, but if you think about them long enough, they can stop you from even trying.
If the statistics aren't in your favor, tough it out, if they are, then coast it out. Complaining isn't going to change anything.
I agree with JPRPRPR... Can this PC crap, it's a tougher world if you want to go interracial and the additional obstacles stop it from happening.
I'm asian, and I've dated around. My longest LTR was a blonde-haired, blue-eyes from arkansas... You think I had to put up with subtle crap from certain parts of her extended family... Sure... but I just steadied myself and stayed myself and stayed consistent.
JPRPRPR's statistic's are pretty accurate about interracial marriages. But all you really have is yourself and your relationships, don't let statistics and culture determine them for you.
If the statistics aren't in your favor, tough it out, if they are, then coast it out. Complaining isn't going to change anything.
I agree with JPRPRPR... Can this PC crap, it's a tougher world if you want to go interracial and the additional obstacles stop it from happening.
I'm asian, and I've dated around. My longest LTR was a blonde-haired, blue-eyes from arkansas... You think I had to put up with subtle crap from certain parts of her extended family... Sure... but I just steadied myself and stayed myself and stayed consistent.
JPRPRPR's statistic's are pretty accurate about interracial marriages. But all you really have is yourself and your relationships, don't let statistics and culture determine them for you.
School
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Okay Jprjrjr, you posted a picture, of you, ALONE. WHere is your picture with your HOT white or black chick??
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Oh ****..I'll post some of me and some hot white chicks...sounds funny coming from some fag who hasn't posted any pics yet.....Originally posted by School
Okay Jprjrjr, you posted a picture, of you, ALONE. WHere is your picture with your HOT white or black chick??
School
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Not interested...****..I'll post some of me and some hot white chicks...
jprjrjR
IM ME YOUR EMAIL ADRESS. I WILL SEND YOU LOTS OF PICS OF ME AND MY BUDS WITH HOTTT WHITE CHICKS
I PMED YOU REPLY FOOL
PS
STATISTICS YOU STATED ARE FOR MARRIAGE. WE ARE TALKING ABOUT FVCKING, I BANGED PLENTY OF HOTT WHITE CHICKS, AND WOULDNT MARRY ONE
IM ME YOUR EMAIL ADRESS. I WILL SEND YOU LOTS OF PICS OF ME AND MY BUDS WITH HOTTT WHITE CHICKS
I PMED YOU REPLY FOOL
PS
STATISTICS YOU STATED ARE FOR MARRIAGE. WE ARE TALKING ABOUT FVCKING, I BANGED PLENTY OF HOTT WHITE CHICKS, AND WOULDNT MARRY ONE
YOU COULDN'T MARRY ONE FAGGOT...POST THE FVCKING PICS ON HERE FAGOriginally posted by zolo
jprjrjR
IM ME YOUR EMAIL ADRESS. I WILL SEND YOU LOTS OF PICS OF ME AND MY BUDS WITH HOTTT WHITE CHICKS
I PMED YOU REPLY FOOL
PS
STATISTICS YOU STATED ARE FOR MARRIAGE. WE ARE TALKING ABOUT FVCKING, I BANGED PLENTY OF HOTT WHITE CHICKS, AND WOULDNT MARRY ONE
School
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Jprjrjr, you seem rather hostile. Black men intimidate you...?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No..they don't intimidate me...I think they intimidate you though...you seem to kiss azz on them real nice..Originally posted by School
Jprjrjr, you seem rather hostile. Black men intimidate you...?
I was Pacific Fleet Heavyweight boxing champ USMC...I never lost a fight to a black guy..guess that blows that myth too huh..
BY THE WAY....POST YOUR PIC FAG...
\Originally posted by zolo
I DON'T KNOW HOW TO POST PICS HERE
, TELL ME HOW TO AND i WILL BE HAPPY TO
COPY THE FVCKING LINK, AND POST IT...ARE YOU THAT FVCKING STUPID?
YOU'RE NEVER SHUTTING ME UP FAG..I WANNA SEE THESE PICS...Originally posted by zolo
ANYBODY TELL ME HOW TO POST PICS ON HERE SO I CAN SHUT THIS FOOL UP
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No *****..you're just scared to post your ugly azz white *****es....Did you get them from the Jerry Springer show audience?Originally posted by zolo
SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE THE FAG, YOU ARE THE ONE WHO WANTS TO SEE BROTHAS WITH YOUR GIRLS
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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