"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Intimidated by Independence?

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It seems as if girls (women) are intimidated by a man's independence. I live on my own, work for myself and do pretty much as I please. I live life by my own rules... not those set out for us by society. I don't need a woman to be happy and I would only seriously date one if she made me a better person.

But it seems as though once they realize this, they start losing interest. It's almost as if they are getting self-conscious saying "why does he want to date me?"

I just don't understand. Their insecurities have forced me to become insecure with myself. Is there something wrong with me? Am I too skinny? Too independent? Too available? I just don't know.

Every fecking loser on this planet has a girlfriend and here I am playing "the system" and I'm getting blown off by a lot of them. I'm starting to think that "the system" has flaws in it.

Here is my "myspace" to give you a little better idea of who I am. www.myspace.com/letsgettoxic

Any help or insight would be appreciated.

Thanks guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You are wrong. A man's independence attracts women (and of course challenges and frustrates them too!)

There is something else. More details needed.

The fact that you are allowing things to get to you and become insecure is a problem in itself.

How can you become insecure about being independent?

Too available? Maybe. But how could that be with all the stuff you have going on? Hmm.

If you really don't need a woman to be happy, why do you observe that every fvcking loser has a girlfriend but you?

What are some examples of how you use "the system" and how you get blown off?

Bottom line, you're not getting these girls to feel something for you, right? So you may be independent and all that, but somehow leave them cold? Maybe you're too serious and don't exude warmth toward them? Who knows.

Details, details!
 
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don't worry about it too much, dude.

you are not living by your own rules if you worry about this ****. Just have fun, fvck *****es, take care of your business and friends before everything else, and you'll be fine.
 
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