Intetesting thought...forcing a quick decision by a woman...

[marmel75]

Just often wondered on this topic.

If on a date you start the Kino early and keep it up, pushing throughout the date and then increase the escalation, effectively forcing the woman to make a quick decision on if she is into you, would it be the same decision as if you took things slower over the course of 2 or 3 dates?

My theory is that I would rather force the decision quickly because I believe its going to be the same decision regardless of how long it takes her to make it...ie, if she isn't going to go for you on the first date, she isn't going to for you after 2 more dates. Basically if she isn't attracted enough on date 1, wasting 2 more dates isn't going to increase it and you aren't going to end up getting anywhere anyway.

Now some may say this could be interpreted as coming on too strong, but in my experiences if she is into you it won't matter, and if she isn't it won't matter either, it just gives you more time to meet someone else and not waste it on a woman that you aren't going to get anywhere with...

Any thoughts? Can her attraction build over several dates if you lay back or does forcing a quick decision end up being the decision that she would make if given more time?

How do you guys normally play it?

 

[Roni_88]

I go for it since the first date, getting physical slowly.. Touching her hands, going for a hug, I use a lot push-pull,, the vibe tells you whether go or not for the kiss and more.. I dont prolong for other dates.. Or we have chemistry or not.

 

[stevo]

Always try on the first date, she already knows if she'd give it up or not.

 

[marmel75]

Always try on the first date, she already knows if she'd give it up or not.

Oh I agree, but could you ever overdo it?

Ie, could she think you are desperate for coming on that way or is that something she would think only if she wasn't attracted in the first place?