"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NEWBIE101

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What do you all think of them? There's a girl of a different race than me who's interested and I'm sorta interested in her. She asked for my cell phone the other day without me even asking and put her number in my phone to call her. Do you think it would be bad for us to go on a date even though I'm white and she's Asian?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Porky

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Do whatever you want.
 

LikRetsam

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This, I must say, is the most retarded post I have ever read. It bears so much stupidity that I had to reread it 3 times before catching all of it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Why should you care about what other people think about who you date? There are much better ways to waste energy.
 

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It's 2004.
It's America.
You're a Don Juan.
You Like Her.
She Likes You.
.......No Problem.

P.S. I know you're not one but i thought id add that i hate racists with all my heart. That probably makes me just as bad as one.
 

Eternal

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I see no problems with them. I've been in them and frankly...They were some of the best dates ever. My best friend is white and married to a black girl. A lot of my black friends have white girlfriends...No problems with me.
 

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:) If you are comfortable with it... I don't see why not.

If you're having second thoughts because shes asian and you're white... you should start to question why you would even consider that as a reason.

Unless you're getting enough ass to only date women who meet your specifications perfectly... do her.
 

LikRetsam

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Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
If you're having second thoughts because shes asian and you're white... you should start to question why you would even consider that as a reason.
I should stop being a jack ass and express my opinions much more clearly and less adolescently.

The above is what I meant =)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bunk 040

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In my AFC days, very few, I wouldn't even talk to white chickens. But now if the boy gets aroused, it's like I know that I can pull this chick. I don't do it for validation, I do it for love of the sport.

If punk AFC's don't like it, well that explains it.
 

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If your paranoid about what people think, then itll do you good. If not, no worries
 
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