"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm just curious how many white guys out there are interested in black women? I've got a thing for black women and they tend to respond pretty well to me and I'm curious of others experience.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ill go for any woman as long as i find her attractive, no matter the race/color.
 
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I'm black and my interest in women varies. For a while I'll be interested in Asian women, then Black women, then Hispanic women, then White women etc....I like em all....right now I've got a taste for Indian women lol
 
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I'm black myself love being black

Been with all races, and I hate to say,f@ck I really do....

but if you date a black girl make sure she has no kids and had her father in her
life,or you will surely regrect it

I'm back dating Hispanic women now
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the_count said:
I'm black and my interest in women varies. For a while I'll be interested in Asian women, then Black women, then Hispanic women, then White women etc....I like em all....right now I've got a taste for Indian women lol
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Man I'm exactly the same. I took a black girl out recently but she's a flake but now I'm back to obsessing over black women. I was in an asian mode not too long ago.
 
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Fatal Jay said:
I'm black myself love being black

Been with all races, and I hate to say,f@ck I really do....

but if you date a black girl make sure she has no kids and had her father in her
life,or you will surely regrect it

I'm back dating Hispanic women now
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I can handle a kid or two but if there is more than two I'm out or if there is more than one father I'm out, that goes for all women.
 
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If its one I'm out,ain't taking care of another man child, especially pretending like I like it
 
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I'm black. I'd rather be with a White woman. But it seems that most of the White women where I live try to be reserved for the White men or the athletes or the successful men IN THE NOW, not the working man trying to come up.

IBTL if this somehow turns into a racial issue, but I have my preferences. I don't worry about the color of a woman's skin that much.

To each their own. You can't satify everyone.
 
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I'm white and I prefer Latin European women and Latin American women. They're just beautiful, more beautiful than any other race of women and I also have a fondness for mixed race women, especially girls who are half-white and half-black.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fatal Jay said:
I'm black myself love being black

Been with all races, and I hate to say,f@ck I really do....

but if you date a black girl make sure she has no kids and had her father in her
life,or you will surely regrect it

I'm back dating Hispanic women now
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:up: Black man Latina lover right here too. I'm definitely having my baby with a mamacita. Asian girls come in 2nd. Like most sensible black men I can't stand black girls either.
 
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