"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interracial dating

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I'm just curious how many white guys out there are interested in black women? I've got a thing for black women and they tend to respond pretty well to me and I'm curious of others experience.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Love's Orphan

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Ill go for any woman as long as i find her attractive, no matter the race/color.
 

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I'm black and my interest in women varies. For a while I'll be interested in Asian women, then Black women, then Hispanic women, then White women etc....I like em all....right now I've got a taste for Indian women lol
 

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I'm black myself love being black

Been with all races, and I hate to say,f@ck I really do....

but if you date a black girl make sure she has no kids and had her father in her
life,or you will surely regrect it

I'm back dating Hispanic women now
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the_count said:
I'm black and my interest in women varies. For a while I'll be interested in Asian women, then Black women, then Hispanic women, then White women etc....I like em all....right now I've got a taste for Indian women lol
Man I'm exactly the same. I took a black girl out recently but she's a flake but now I'm back to obsessing over black women. I was in an asian mode not too long ago.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
I'm black myself love being black

Been with all races, and I hate to say,f@ck I really do....

but if you date a black girl make sure she has no kids and had her father in her
life,or you will surely regrect it

I'm back dating Hispanic women now
I can handle a kid or two but if there is more than two I'm out or if there is more than one father I'm out, that goes for all women.
 

Fatal Jay

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If its one I'm out,ain't taking care of another man child, especially pretending like I like it
 

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I'm black. I'd rather be with a White woman. But it seems that most of the White women where I live try to be reserved for the White men or the athletes or the successful men IN THE NOW, not the working man trying to come up.

IBTL if this somehow turns into a racial issue, but I have my preferences. I don't worry about the color of a woman's skin that much.

To each their own. You can't satify everyone.
 
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I'm white and I prefer Latin European women and Latin American women. They're just beautiful, more beautiful than any other race of women and I also have a fondness for mixed race women, especially girls who are half-white and half-black.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hustlaz Ambition

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Fatal Jay said:
I'm black myself love being black

Been with all races, and I hate to say,f@ck I really do....

but if you date a black girl make sure she has no kids and had her father in her
life,or you will surely regrect it

I'm back dating Hispanic women now
:up: Black man Latina lover right here too. I'm definitely having my baby with a mamacita. Asian girls come in 2nd. Like most sensible black men I can't stand black girls either.
 
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