my friend told this girl that i like her (i didn't) and then the girl gave this look and said something to her friend (wasn't an angry, amused, or negative look, i'm sure of it). Then a few minutes later, she stared at me a couple of times.. what does this mean?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Interpret this
- Thread starter tactic
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
she was just checking if you really were interested or whether you were a pvssy. So you dont like her? dont even worry about it, why post a useless thread. If you do like her and your lying to yourself, get some balls...and btw your chances with this girl are gone, thats if you really were interested.
don't get me mad because this was just to see what you guys would say, as in what it meant.. i don't want to get a fight started but don't post if you think it's useless, why do you post if you think it's useless, it's like saying you're going to some resturaunt and you think they serve bad food. common sense? but thanks for your thoughts.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
im saying is useless if you dont like her. just like it is pointless in going to a restaurant if you dont like the food, is useless worrying about what a girl may think if you dont even like her.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
From "Look Into My Eyes" by Allen Thompson, on the main site:Originally posted by undesputable
...and btw your chances with this girl are gone, thats if you really were interested.
"The third major point discussed in this article is that we like those who like us.
We are almost always attracted to those who are attracted to us. Why? Could be many possible reasons for this. But probably the main reason is because when another person likes us, it makes us feel good about ourselves. It gives us an ego boost and increases our self-esteem and self-confidence.
Like it or not, we often judge ourselves by other people's reactions to us. If others seem to like us, then we feel good about ourselves. If others don't seem to like us, then we may feel bad about ourselves. "
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
that is actually your opinion and no i didn't like her (maybe a little bit, that is why), but i would be aware of it next time this happened.Originally posted by undesputable
im saying is useless if you dont like her. just like it is pointless in going to a restaurant if you dont like the food, is useless worrying about what a girl may think if you dont even like her.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
It means its time to grow some balls and get her number.
that wasn't a very necessary post, oak, because i wasn't going to go up to her, i just wanted to know this meant for later on when this happens again.. i'm not looking for an answer that makes people think i wanted to go up to her, i didn't, i just wanted to know.
and really, what does your post have to do with what i posted, unless you want to make a reasonable post for your reply, then do so.
and really, what does your post have to do with what i posted, unless you want to make a reasonable post for your reply, then do so.