my friend told this girl that i like her (i didn't) and then the girl gave this look and said something to her friend (wasn't an angry, amused, or negative look, i'm sure of it). Then a few minutes later, she stared at me a couple of times.. what does this mean?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Interpret this
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undesputable
Master Don Juan
she was just checking if you really were interested or whether you were a pvssy. So you dont like her? dont even worry about it, why post a useless thread. If you do like her and your lying to yourself, get some balls...and btw your chances with this girl are gone, thats if you really were interested.
don't get me mad because this was just to see what you guys would say, as in what it meant.. i don't want to get a fight started but don't post if you think it's useless, why do you post if you think it's useless, it's like saying you're going to some resturaunt and you think they serve bad food. common sense? but thanks for your thoughts.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
im saying is useless if you dont like her. just like it is pointless in going to a restaurant if you dont like the food, is useless worrying about what a girl may think if you dont even like her.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
From "Look Into My Eyes" by Allen Thompson, on the main site:Originally posted by undesputable
...and btw your chances with this girl are gone, thats if you really were interested.
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We are almost always attracted to those who are attracted to us. Why? Could be many possible reasons for this. But probably the main reason is because when another person likes us, it makes us feel good about ourselves. It gives us an ego boost and increases our self-esteem and self-confidence.
Like it or not, we often judge ourselves by other people's reactions to us. If others seem to like us, then we feel good about ourselves. If others don't seem to like us, then we may feel bad about ourselves. "
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that is actually your opinion and no i didn't like her (maybe a little bit, that is why), but i would be aware of it next time this happened.Originally posted by undesputable
im saying is useless if you dont like her. just like it is pointless in going to a restaurant if you dont like the food, is useless worrying about what a girl may think if you dont even like her.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
It means its time to grow some balls and get her number.
that wasn't a very necessary post, oak, because i wasn't going to go up to her, i just wanted to know this meant for later on when this happens again.. i'm not looking for an answer that makes people think i wanted to go up to her, i didn't, i just wanted to know.
and really, what does your post have to do with what i posted, unless you want to make a reasonable post for your reply, then do so.
and really, what does your post have to do with what i posted, unless you want to make a reasonable post for your reply, then do so.