"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Internet profile: avoid fatties, gain attractive girls

Luveno

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On my dating site profile, I have similar to the following written down:

"Do not message me if you are not in shape or fat; I'm not interested."

I've gotten many an angry email from zaftig women who want to feel loved and equal, to which I reply " please read my profile for instructions"

But fortunately, I've gotten even more emails from attractive, assertive women who respect the fact that I'm forthcoming in my desires, or lack thereof.

So, to avoid fatties on a dating site, publicly denounce their presence. Easy as that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The chicks like your bravado, standards and the fact you know what you want.....but the ? is what did your profile message say?
 

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It said nearly verbatim to what's there.
 
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