"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Internet profile: avoid fatties, gain attractive girls

Luveno

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On my dating site profile, I have similar to the following written down:

"Do not message me if you are not in shape or fat; I'm not interested."

I've gotten many an angry email from zaftig women who want to feel loved and equal, to which I reply " please read my profile for instructions"

But fortunately, I've gotten even more emails from attractive, assertive women who respect the fact that I'm forthcoming in my desires, or lack thereof.

So, to avoid fatties on a dating site, publicly denounce their presence. Easy as that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The chicks like your bravado, standards and the fact you know what you want.....but the ? is what did your profile message say?
 

Luveno

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It said nearly verbatim to what's there.
 
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