"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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boulepiquante

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internet dating is more complex than it seeems and i m not convinced that it really works
it seems to me that women are very quick to screen a guy
if his choice of words has been poor or unfornunate they ll
go to the next guy (afterall the choice is infinte on the net so they think and they end up as spinsters !!!!!)
personally i do this
i use a lot of ****y and funny
i ask them in the second mail' i am looking for a humorous woman with a great sense of adventure ( thanks STYLE )
then i arrange to hook up with her during the same week

if you you stall out too much abouty this meeting nothing will happen !!!

then go to STYLE on BRISTOL LAIR and see how to lead the convo once with her
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hahaha as nice as that sounds, I've given up on meeting girls from the internet... haha i think i was 16 when this happened:

some of them sound really sweet, then you see them crying when you meet them, and you ask why? they tell you that they just came out of therapy, and that she just dropped off her baby with her mom.
haah then she kept wanting to go back to my hotel room...
would've been nice if she didn't have a nasty smell to her (baby puke? old lady smell?? i don't know it gve me a headache)

that's only one story, i have more... girls that magically find out my phone # and house address from talking to me on msn...

creepy stuff, i'll never do that again
 

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I feel sorry for all the guys out there that have to deal with these types of women and likewise for women dealing with men. People are sometimes so cracked out in general.

I for one think that even if you have seen a pic of someone from the net its still a blind date. Its like hitting the lottery-- the odds are impossibly stacked against you.

I had this girl that found out my phone number from talking to her once and it turned out she was 16 and her dad was a cop. I was like holy sh** get the h*ll away from me.

So to heck with internet dating its just a bunch of bs anyway. later

OH I forgot one thing she has called me about 5 times now and I just don't answer her. Freaky stuff.
 

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How about just dating people you meet in your daily life so that way you can continue your daily life without having to sit at the computer.
 

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I can't relate to what you guys are posting here. Ofcourse you shouldn't relay on internet as the only way to meet girls, but it's definately a great addition.

Send a few messages back and forth, get her on msn, get her intrigued and after a short while she will suggest that you meet.
Then you set up a "date" ( only you don't call it that). Talk to her, have fun and see what happens. If you don't like her, so what? You lost nothing. If she doesn't like you, so what? You lost nothing. If you hit it off, then great!
I have never met a psycho or weird girl from the net. They are normal girls just like anyone else. Hot chicks spend just as much time on the net as more average-looking girls.

I've meet lots of sweet girls from the net. Had a few romances and also some have become great friends. But for the love of god, get in the field as well!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ok thats a good response \O/ but you do not know that they are crazy as hell after talking to them for a few minutes (some maybe but for most its very hard)... So I say the real life is the best option for everyone even for the socially challenged. Im out enough of this thread its old ;)
 

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I agree with previous posts that the "odd's are stacked against you", and it can get real creepy dealing with all the online fakes and psycho's. You wonder why any attractive woman would bother with it, and you get your answer pretty quick!
 
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