“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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boulepiquante

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internet dating is more complex than it seeems and i m not convinced that it really works
it seems to me that women are very quick to screen a guy
if his choice of words has been poor or unfornunate they ll
go to the next guy (afterall the choice is infinte on the net so they think and they end up as spinsters !!!!!)
personally i do this
i use a lot of ****y and funny
i ask them in the second mail' i am looking for a humorous woman with a great sense of adventure ( thanks STYLE )
then i arrange to hook up with her during the same week

if you you stall out too much abouty this meeting nothing will happen !!!

then go to STYLE on BRISTOL LAIR and see how to lead the convo once with her
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hahaha as nice as that sounds, I've given up on meeting girls from the internet... haha i think i was 16 when this happened:

some of them sound really sweet, then you see them crying when you meet them, and you ask why? they tell you that they just came out of therapy, and that she just dropped off her baby with her mom.
haah then she kept wanting to go back to my hotel room...
would've been nice if she didn't have a nasty smell to her (baby puke? old lady smell?? i don't know it gve me a headache)

that's only one story, i have more... girls that magically find out my phone # and house address from talking to me on msn...

creepy stuff, i'll never do that again
 

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I feel sorry for all the guys out there that have to deal with these types of women and likewise for women dealing with men. People are sometimes so cracked out in general.

I for one think that even if you have seen a pic of someone from the net its still a blind date. Its like hitting the lottery-- the odds are impossibly stacked against you.

I had this girl that found out my phone number from talking to her once and it turned out she was 16 and her dad was a cop. I was like holy sh** get the h*ll away from me.

So to heck with internet dating its just a bunch of bs anyway. later

OH I forgot one thing she has called me about 5 times now and I just don't answer her. Freaky stuff.
 

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How about just dating people you meet in your daily life so that way you can continue your daily life without having to sit at the computer.
 

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I can't relate to what you guys are posting here. Ofcourse you shouldn't relay on internet as the only way to meet girls, but it's definately a great addition.

Send a few messages back and forth, get her on msn, get her intrigued and after a short while she will suggest that you meet.
Then you set up a "date" ( only you don't call it that). Talk to her, have fun and see what happens. If you don't like her, so what? You lost nothing. If she doesn't like you, so what? You lost nothing. If you hit it off, then great!
I have never met a psycho or weird girl from the net. They are normal girls just like anyone else. Hot chicks spend just as much time on the net as more average-looking girls.

I've meet lots of sweet girls from the net. Had a few romances and also some have become great friends. But for the love of god, get in the field as well!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok thats a good response \O/ but you do not know that they are crazy as hell after talking to them for a few minutes (some maybe but for most its very hard)... So I say the real life is the best option for everyone even for the socially challenged. Im out enough of this thread its old ;)
 

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I agree with previous posts that the "odd's are stacked against you", and it can get real creepy dealing with all the online fakes and psycho's. You wonder why any attractive woman would bother with it, and you get your answer pretty quick!
 
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