"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chamber36

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Hey guys.

I made myself a simple internet dating profile.

Just got 1 pic of myself smilin from 3 years ago, so I'm lookin young.

Apparently I want to have a hot chocolate with a girl (18-28), I'm interested in MMA and I'm looking for a girl who knows what she wants.

Do I necessarily need a pic of myself surrounded by girls though? I think it would probably help out a lot.

And when I meet women what route should I go? Just act excited? I just sent a "hi" to a girl and I get "Hey!!" back. *****es are usually boring. So I just chit-chat for 5 minutes I guess and then set up a date? How does this internet dating stuff usually go?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chamber36

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I go out all the time, I'm just dealing with a tough crowd, so I want supplementation.

BTW my interests now include: Fight Club, The Caribbean, James Bond, Learning, Mixed Martial Arts and Sexology. That should do the trick when it comes to attracting the ones I want.

I'm afraid that my interests will divert women away from me though, that's why I didn't place my taste in music.

If anyone has any advice for me I would appreciate it because I'm new to the internet dating game.
 
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