"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chamber36

Chamber36

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Hey guys.

I made myself a simple internet dating profile.

Just got 1 pic of myself smilin from 3 years ago, so I'm lookin young.

Apparently I want to have a hot chocolate with a girl (18-28), I'm interested in MMA and I'm looking for a girl who knows what she wants.

Do I necessarily need a pic of myself surrounded by girls though? I think it would probably help out a lot.

And when I meet women what route should I go? Just act excited? I just sent a "hi" to a girl and I get "Hey!!" back. *****es are usually boring. So I just chit-chat for 5 minutes I guess and then set up a date? How does this internet dating stuff usually go?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I go out all the time, I'm just dealing with a tough crowd, so I want supplementation.

BTW my interests now include: Fight Club, The Caribbean, James Bond, Learning, Mixed Martial Arts and Sexology. That should do the trick when it comes to attracting the ones I want.

I'm afraid that my interests will divert women away from me though, that's why I didn't place my taste in music.

If anyone has any advice for me I would appreciate it because I'm new to the internet dating game.
 
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