"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chamber36

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Hey guys.

I made myself a simple internet dating profile.

Just got 1 pic of myself smilin from 3 years ago, so I'm lookin young.

Apparently I want to have a hot chocolate with a girl (18-28), I'm interested in MMA and I'm looking for a girl who knows what she wants.

Do I necessarily need a pic of myself surrounded by girls though? I think it would probably help out a lot.

And when I meet women what route should I go? Just act excited? I just sent a "hi" to a girl and I get "Hey!!" back. *****es are usually boring. So I just chit-chat for 5 minutes I guess and then set up a date? How does this internet dating stuff usually go?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chamber36

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I go out all the time, I'm just dealing with a tough crowd, so I want supplementation.

BTW my interests now include: Fight Club, The Caribbean, James Bond, Learning, Mixed Martial Arts and Sexology. That should do the trick when it comes to attracting the ones I want.

I'm afraid that my interests will divert women away from me though, that's why I didn't place my taste in music.

If anyone has any advice for me I would appreciate it because I'm new to the internet dating game.
 
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